My full model name is LilMissSynn, but most people call me Synn. I’m 33 and I work primarily on MyFreeCams, Skype, Niteflirt, and Kinklive. I have my own pay site and blog. I am in the process of starting a V-log with my ex podcast cohost.
When Synn Started Working in the Adult Industry
I got into the BDSM scene when I was 19/20, modeling 2011/2012 and camming around 2012.
Is Camming Synn’s Main Source of Income?
For a while it was and I made anywhere between 3-4k a month. Currently I work for a non profit charity full time and cam to supplement. Between camming and videos it’s bringing in about 800-1k a month, but that was summer and I had extra time. It will be interesting to see what happens come fall/winter when I have less time but traffic is higher on all the sites. Just like any other industry there are slow months and busy months.
Synn’s Background Comes Together in Camming
As I mentioned I’ve been in the BDSM scene for quite some time. I’ve been kinky my whole life. I’m extremely independent, blessed with innate confidence and a pretty high IQ. I had built a successful business by the time I was 23 and realized I hated corporate life. When the time came to shut down my business I was all too happy to give camming and ProDomme work a go.
Synn Remembers Her Very First Day on Cam
I do sooo clearly!! Bahahahhahahaha So I was trying to set up my camera on MyFreeCams. Like a greedy eager beaver I didn’t bother to read anything. Little did I know I was on cam; my room was filling up and I had no clue!! LMAO finally a kind soul “spoke up” to let me know I was live. I made really sweet money that night, actually! It was a natural thing for me. I’m an entertainer, so sitting in front of people being entertaining isn’t hard. Partially because I live an eclectic life. It wasn’t long before I had regulars that just wanted Synn updates. Like a soap opera.
Story Time With LilMissSynn – Some Memorable Shows
Story Time With LilMissSynn – Some Memorable Shows
Sooooo I am a great kinky story teller; that’s why NiteFlirt was so lucrative for me. However, there were just things I could never do. Race play was one of them. I could never ever use that word. Another was defecation stories. My tummy wouldn’t allow for such a story to be told without vomiting! I had to learn the hard way on both of those!
LOL the race player client stopped me and said, “Sweetie, this is painful – you may be one bad ass bitch, but your heart is too good for this play.” And the defecation client hung up right after my first dry heave! LOL
So no matter where I cam, I am expected to be Miss Synn. A traditional Domme. Very very rarely did I ever get fully naked, but I used to do a lot of oiled titties shows and “let’s get Miss Synn cum drunk” shows… Well, once in my MFC room someone thought it would be a great idea to smear peanut butter on my chest instead of oil and paid me quite a bit to do so. All my regulars were there, and the second the peanut butter went on you could feel the energy of the room go from elation to flat. When I looked up and saw myself I realized just how much peanut butter on skin looks like baby poop. Everyone was disgusted! Myself included. Almost two years later we still don’t talk about P-day. The trauma is too fresh.
What Synn Loves and Hates About Her Work
So some girls fake it, some girls don’t. I don’t. What I absolutely loved but then hated was the amount of times I would orgasm in a day. It really started to affect my libido and straight up numb my lady bits. Not cool. So I eased up on the camming and started filming videos and doing in person Pro Domme work. I am a traditional Dominatrix in the sense that my sessions did not involve sex or nudity. However between my government creating new laws that pretty much jeopardized my safety and service providers cashing in on the Fifty Shades of Grey hype (no hate, they got affected by the laws too) by offering domination with sex, I pretty much stopped that work altogether.
[tweetthis twitter_handles=”@XSynsualX” remove_hidden_hashtags=”true”]Some girls fake it.. I don’t. What I loved.. then hated was the # of times I would orgasm in a day.[/tweetthis]
LilMissSynn’s Niche and Secret to Success
Even if I wanted to be something different my audience would not accept me as anything but Miss Synn. If I don’t wear my General’s hat at MFC it’s like I’ve stolen from the poor. People get upset. It made me realize that success is knowing your audience and catering to your audience. Interestingly enough if I cam for KinkLive they are very ok with me switching. They accept me bottoming, yet still address me as a top. On Niteflirt they expect MissSynn with the filthy stories who welcomes all fetishes.
That would be my niche. A Pro Domme with a penchant for fetishes and the taboo. I think why I shine is because it’s the life I live. I don’t play BDSM – I actually live it. I am in a power exchange relationship. I perform rope bondage all over North America. I take classes. I hosted a kinky podcast. This is my life. I think that resonates with people. I think they see the authenticity and are fascinated and enthralled by it.
[tweetthis twitter_handles=”@XSynsualX”]I think they see the authenticity and are fascinated and enthralled by it.[/tweetthis]
Synn’s Lifestyle and Personal Relationships
I am very much out of the “closet.” Everyone knows I’m kinky. Queer. The cam/phone sex and even the Pro Domme work. I hosted a kinky podcast for about a year; if they didn’t know they sure do now. But I’m not one to hide. People have questions, but no one is ever rude. When my mother found out how much I made per hour with Pro Domme work she actually asked if we could open our own dungeon!
I make no apologies for who and what I am. There are maybe five people who’s opinion of me actually matters, and they were informed right along the way. Now do I run around telling my grandmother I make boys do naughty things for my amusement? No. I have class and decorum. But I don’t hide who and what I am. Ever.
How Being a Webcam Model Has Changed Synn
I love it. The people I meet. The relationships I forge. The kindness I receive. I honestly love it. It has enhanced my life, allowed me to connect with others and offer them a free space to share things that they usually hide with lots of shame and self loathing.
With Miss Synn there is no judgement. I’ve seen and heard it all and I think if you are not harming anyone, yourself included, let that freak flag fly high! I have so many clients thank me for letting them be them. There’s nothing that can beat that feeling.
[tweetthis twitter_handles=”@XSynsualX”]With Miss Synn there is no judgement…let that freak flag fly high![/tweetthis]
Wrapping it up…
I think my experience in this industry will always be skewed because of being sooo entrenched in the BDSM scene prior. I can say, have a thick skin. Don’t take anything personally. Watch your money. There will be great months, then dry months. It’s very up and down. If it’s too good, don’t do it. You are allowed to say no.
Synn’s Words of Wisdom for Beginner Webcam Models
Build your empire’s foundation. Pick a name. Use it for everything. NEVER associate with your personal name. Once you got that, then act like you are pimping out NIKE. You are a product. A brand. Get yourself everywhere. Twitter. Sites. Tumblr. Social media is your best friend. Get them going. Get a buzz going on about your persona. Make sure to post pics. Good quality pics – and be coy. Don’t reveal too much until your debut.
When you finally get on cam, and your audience decides you are a sweet submissive they want to pamper – even though you want to be a bad ass bitch stomping heads – listen to your audience. They will also tell you when it’s time to revamp yourself.
Get to know them. Talk to them. I have clients who I haven’t seen in years still sending me tributes. Loyalty matters.
[tweetthis twitter_handles=”@XSynsualX”]When you get on cam and your audience decides you are a submissive- listen to your audience.[/tweetthis]
I’m actually in the middle of creating a blog with all sorts of industry scoops/tips/tricks. It’s just getting off the ground, had to learn a little code but now it’s on it’s way. www.lilmisssynnblog.com
Thank you, Synn!
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— Synn (@XSynsualX) October 22, 2015
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