Becoming an Online Dominatrix: 3 Things to Think About First

Online female domination is on the rise, so it’s no wonder there are many more cam girls interested in offering these types of services! A cam model can offer female domination (FemDom) alongside her vanilla services, or she can offer FemDom exclusively. Many cam models are successful only doing female domination so it’s worth exploring to see if it’s right for you, especially if you’re seeking a change in your cam girl routine or looking to take a completely different direction altogether.

Here are 3 things to think about to ensure you’re making the right decision for yourself before jumping head first into female domination.

Female Domination is Not Fast Cash

It’s important to understand that the world of female domination, even financial domination, is not an easy or fast way to make money. Many new cam girls go into fetishes like FemDom thinking it’s as easy as saying, “Give me your money slave!” I can tell you with absolute certainty – just saying that will not work. Part of the art of specializing in FemDom is the ability to make it look effortless, especially to subs, so this could contribute to why this perception exists. However, as with all other aspects of camming, it takes time and hard work before building a following of subs to be successful in these fetishes. After you’ve established a following, saying “Give me your money slave!” will work much more often.

It Takes a Certain Personality to be a Dominatrix

Unlike vanilla work for many cam girls, getting into female domination requires a very different way of thinking. For example, take away the thank yous and appreciation for tributes, and act as though tributes are expected. Dismissing the notion of gratitude is just one of the many persona changes a cam model may encounter.

FemDom can be very uncomfortable and unfamiliar for models and thus requires a lot of research up front to learn as much as possible to set yourself up for success; beyond research, it requires a lot of practice. Many cam girls have called female domination the total opposite of how they were brought up culturally, and it takes effort to unlearn their upbringing.

Domination-Flavored Content Should be Separate From Vanilla

… probably. Of course it’s completely okay to offer both vanilla and FemDom shows. However, most of the time it is best to separate the vanilla and flavored shows completely. For example, if you have a clip store for your vanilla content, you’ll want to create a completely separate clip store for your FemDom content. This separation includes two totally unique names and personas. So, if your cam girl name is “Sara Smith”, it can be as easy as changing your name to “Goddess Sara”. Of course, you can pick something completely different, like “Lady Whiplash”.

Why? Because you don’t want to scare your vanilla clients off when they search your cam name, and keeping your FemDom subs locked in Lady Whiplash’s proverbial video dungeon is in everyone’s best interest. Most guys like to focus on their fetish, so seeing the two mixed together can be off putting.

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